Mildness
Part of speech: noun
Definition: The quality of being mild; gentleness
Softness
Part of speech: noun
Definition: a state of being soft
Example sentence: The woman who rules her roost is one of two things: she's illogical, therefore spoiling her children, or she's an iron-fisted disciplinarian, adopting the attitude that rightfully belongs to the man and losing the precious softness that is her birthright.