Humiliating
Part of speech: verb
Definition: To injure the dignity and self-respect of.
Part of speech: adjective
Definition: Liable to humiliate, degrade, shame or embarrass someone.
Example sentence: Once you start crossing over and displaying feminine ways, you're a target. It's sad, it's humiliating, and it's confusing.
Mortifying
Part of speech: verb
Definition: To discipline (one's body, appetites etc.) by suppressing desires; to practise abstinence on.
Part of speech: adjective
Definition: Causing mortification; extremely embarrassing.